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Capsule 04 — Testimonials

Testimonials and Support
for the Initiative

The active witness — who am I? Participants share how they did (or didn't) act when facing a problematic situation.

"Just because a woman is nice or smiles doesn't give anyone the right to touch her."

This capsule gives a voice to those who have experienced the darker side of the dance floor. Through direct and heartfelt testimonials, it exposes realities that are often left unspoken: intrusive gestures, violated personal space, normalized discomfort. By deconstructing these experiences, Christophe and Julie remind us that consent is not a detail, but a pillar of collective safety. A necessary reflection to rebuild healthier and more conscious nights.

Memorable quotes

"We dance, it's so intimate. And then suddenly, a hand grabs your butt to steal your moment..."

"Just because a woman is nice or smiles doesn't give anyone the right to touch her."

"If I look at you, if I smile while dancing, that's not an invitation, dude."

"Hands on your butt from behind... it's so commonplace, and that's exactly what we need to change."

Key points

  • Real testimonials of intrusive behavior experienced in party settings.
  • A smile or friendliness is never an invitation for physical contact.
  • Dancing IS an intimate experience: the space and sovereignty of bodies must be respected.
  • Misconduct harms the atmosphere, the production and collective safety.
  • Consent and community vigilance are the foundations of a culture of respect.

Connected themes

Testimony
Intervention
Vigilance
Courage
Salon Daomé
Special Thanks
To Salon Daomé for their collaboration and for hosting the workshop-conference of October 17, 2024.
The Workshop

These capsules are the foundation of the S.O.U.L. Code.

16 conversations filmed during the workshop of October 17, 2024 — the voice of those who live the night.

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